What’s your take on this?

Don’t marry a career woman and force to be a house wife says actor Yul Edochie. Many homes are experiencing such problems today and due to lack of understanding has caused many homes to be broken. When a man will force his educated wife to stay at home and take care of the house, she has her own career and destiny to fulfil for God’s sakes. If you can’t handle a career woman or a woman who wants to be up and doing, you can simply get yourself a wife that would not want to do anything in life. Ofcourse there are plenty of them out there. Do yourself a favor and go for the one you truly want cause you’re the only one that’ll deal with it later.

It hurts but its fine.

Some people feel I shouldn’t talk about it but I really want to pour my heart out. Just ended a five years relationship, I have been trying to make it work with all my strength but you can’t just force some things to be. Am just not lucky I guess, most of the guys I have dated didn’t respect my loyalty. It hurts alot. But it better to deal with yourself instead of tryna force a relationship to be. I am wondering if i was already married to this guy already what would’ve happened? A peaceless home? That’s not my dream for marriage. The least I could get in my marital home is peace. Is there a perfect man out there? Just wondering.

GIVE A HAND. Save one, save all.

To reduce the issue of rape, we have to educate the girl child in the right way and teach them the stages of adolescent. When I went to check on a friend back in school, I saw this girl i think she’s around the ages of 13, 14. She was on her period but couldn’t understand what was happening. When I saw her, I asked what happened to her cause she was soaked with blood and didn’t even border about it because she didn’t know the meaning. I bought a pad for her and showed her how to put it on. I wonder what would’ve happened if one of these senseless guys saw her before I did. Please some children dont have the opportunity to know their parents, let’s give a hand. If you come in contact with such children, especially the girls please give a hand by buying a pad for them and educating them before someone else does it wrongly. God bless.

They are watching, be careful.

Good evening fam, i have this experience bordering me that I want to talk about. In the year 2007, I was still kinda little and we lived in two rooms in a compound. There was this neighbour that lived next to our room, he had 2 kids already of age 7, and 3 and each time it 1:00am at late morning, he’ll start hitting his wife. It’s got to an extent one night that the woman called for neighbours to come help her. We all ran out of our rooms started knocking at the door so she could open up but she never did. When it was day break, she couldnt look into our eyes. When I tried asking my mom what really happened, she scolded me and asked me never to say anything about it. The kids who are now grown ups were there and witnessed what happened. What do you think happened and how did the children feel that night?


Hello and welcome to my blog page. I have always wanted to talk about things I have experienced and borders me alot. Our family is where we get to learn literally everything in life. Our family makes us or Mar us, whether we like it or not our family is where we experience the first hate or first love. Our society as well as our nation is in great chaos now simply because some persons were not brought up well or values were not taught them. I will take this as an introductory part of my talk, in subsequent time you’ll hear and read about my experiences. Stay tuned.

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